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Added by John-Mark


Henry, in the last 365 days, not a day has gone by that i have not thought of you many,many times.Some of those days I have cryed, looked at your picture many time and still miss you. There are days I find, when something is broken, saying, well Hrnry will fix it only to remember you are not here to fix it. I want you here but I know in my heart you are in a far better place.All my love.
Added by Dad


I was thinking about what you wrote dad. Henry certainly did seem to be able to fix anything. I have to laugh for as much as he worked on cars I think he hated it. I have one fond memory when Henry was helping me fix my car and he smacked his hand while turning the wrench. He took out all his anger on my fender it was pretty funny now that I think of it.
Added by John-Mark


Dearest Henry,You fought a great battle and you won.After gaining painful insight and remorse for the weakness and problems your disease perpetrated,you endured humiliatons,that could have threatened you , demeaned you and caused your spirit and resolve to break.Instead,the solid,loving,singlehearted man ,that his loved ones always knew was there, emerged.You chose God and your children above all other things and began to recover.PART ONE
Added by Mom


PART 2-Your God ,your children,Erik,Mark,Levi,
Noah,Emalyn,became your primary concern in life.
We always loved you no matter what your status.And, I know you knew this despite our own weaknesses. You reached out to us in your time of need.Thank you.

Added by Anonymous


PART3-The more you faced financial,emotional,and
unrelenting distress, the more your will,and faith srengthened. All the while you dismissed the overwhelming fatigue of your efforts. None of us knew you had a severe heart condition. I regret this so much.

Added by MOM


4.God in his goodness allowed you to have enough time to give us an unending inheritance of love. Your efforts provide your children and us with a great source of comfort. Without your will to accomplish the work before you, we could be grieving for other reasons. Thank you. I miss you, I cry for you, and I celebrate your life.
Added by Mom


The thought just keep rolling. When you mom and dad came to visit me for Xmas after I came back from Iraq that was Henry's first test being home alone and I remember you were all worried about him. I remember him calling and saying tell dad the dog ate his computer and it doesn't work no which was totally possible if knew the dog. .but the dog did eat the bathroom door and Henry described it like the dog had a can opener and just chiseled away at it, sure enough dang dog ate through the door
Added by John-Mark


A mother and father should never have to see their children pass on. I can not fathom what kind of pain that is. I can only hope that we all can wake up this spring and when the birds move north and start singing with warm breeze in the air that we all think of Henry. God I loved him so much...if it wasn't for him I probably wouldn't be here. he kept me from doing some pretty stupid things in life...thank you
Added by Anonymous


HENRY ADDED HUMOR TO OUR LIVES.WHEN HE CAME TO HIS WITS END HELPING ME MAINTAIN A JOB WHERE A CAR WAS ESSENTIAL,BUT HE WAS BEING CALLED UP TO 3XWEEK TO START IT, HE GAVE ME A BACK PACK WITH A PORTABLE BATTERY JUMPER + THOROUGH DIRECTIONS ON HOW TO USE IT.
Added by Mom


Remembering Henry as the "risk-taker" as a child. One day while talking on the phone to his MOM(my friend) Henry literally jumped out the second floor bedroom window expecting to fly to "heaven" to visit his cat who died recently.
Mom was very upset and sowas I!!! But that was Henry. he never got hurt as the bushy bush below protected him from harm's way.
Janice Hastie, family friend)

Added by Anonymous


Henry please take care of John for me. I pray you are both together with all heart. I miss you both terribly.

Added by Love Renee


It is very difficult to believe and understand. On the same day John-Mark was asking us to write humerous things Henry did, the Good Lord took John-Mark too. Please God let us all know they are together and doing your will.Please, especially, comfort Renee, and Bianca, and Krystal.Please give them hope and strength.Surely you both knew how much we loved you. Please cnfirm this in Renee's thoughts. I will love you both for ever.
Added by Anonymous


Dear Wayne and Westfield Family,
I am sorry to have just found out of your lost. As Wayne has stated,even many years ago (early '80's), Henry was being louder,and had sought out these "German" girls (Canadians) in Brigantine ,N.J..We had an opportunity to spend time with Henry and Wayne and fond memories of the american boys we met way back then.My prayers are with you.

Added by Caroline Smith
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