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James P McCauley III

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James P McCauley III

Born
14 February 1940, Washington DC
Died
24 January 2005, Peacefully passed away in his Home with his Family by his side

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Dad - Thinking about you. It's November now the weather is turning cold and bitter. Today is Nov 3rd and this time tomorrow the world is going to be worse than today, a new President is elected into office and either way we go, another bad four years coming. Uncle Billy caught Mark and I up at Charles Town gambling. He is doing good, making the best of things and your family is always in contact with him. Just wanted you to know you are on my mind and I miss you!

Deb, 3 November 2008

hey jim, it is me ,wanted to say hi and let you know it is Christmas. this year is so bad everything has changed and not much fun this year. not the fun time it should be . i am having a real hard time for some rason and i cant get up. have been depressed for some time .this year has hit me hard with out you. but i am going to try to make the best of it. i have to because of the children. when things chang it changes everything. i will try to be up beat . i can not tell you how much i miss you. i think you have a idea so not to go on . o well i guess i will get ready and go to work but remember how much i miss you my friend. will be up to see you today .love you with all my being till later your wife and best friend.

18 December 2008

hey dad,it is Christmas eve and i am trying hard to get ready for the big day. it is not the same as when you were with us but we are going on. trying not to cry but life stinks with out you . i am trying to do the best i can for the kid,s and the baby,s.please look down on all of us and tell us it is ok to go on without you. so i will close for now but will be up to see you in a while love you so much .

24 December 2008

Uncle Jim, Growing up was not the easiest thing in the world for me but when my parents split-up I was so glad I had an Uncle like you around to talk to and I'll always cherish the the guidance you had given me through the years. You were not only one of the honest people in my life but one of the people that I could proud of in all the things you had accomplished in your own life. Not only did you raise three great children of your own but you were there for my sisters and myself if we ever needed anything to get through. I guess that comes from a being a great family that we have and I'm glad for the times we had.Love you always.

Jimmie K, 14 January 2009

The new President of the United States was sworn into office on January 20, 2009. He is our 44th president, he is 48 years old and he is our first African American President, yep, and of course the world is going crazy and with time we will tell if President Obama will turn our country around. Mark and I talked and we laughed that you would have had a field day with this election and the way the economy and world are going. History has been made in the United States! Will write more later. Missing you!

Deb/Mark/Britt/Bear, 21 January 2009

hey jim ,guess you have the notes from jimmy k and deb yep all new world and i think you would say monkey for sure. our kids are so wonderful and to me ,they ar there for me all the time jimmy k is a hoot love him as if he was one of mine.he has a wonderful fmily as you do so he is all good.jimmy k had a hard life but you were there for him and he loves you so much. we will be up on saturday marking the forth year with out you it is no easyer this year but i try so hard . i stay depressed all the time when will i get over this? love you my friend and see you saturday.till then your wife Bess

21 January 2009

Dad - Four years ago today you were so ill and my heart ached to see how much you needed to be at peace and God took you from your family just so you could have that and we know you are in a better place and cancer free. Time has moved but the empty hole in my heart has not healed and I don't expect it too any time soon. I miss you and love you! Your daughter -

Debra Jean, 24 January 2009

Having a big Brother.As kids we stayed in the same bed room,to this day he is still the only person I know that could bite his own toenails. Having a big Brother that I got to ride home from grade school on his bike with,always at full speed.A big Brother that would let you play football with the big boys and knowing that if you hit little brother to hard your ass was grass.A big Brother that never laid a hand on little brother but would let his friends rough him up a little to make him tough.A big Brother that showed you how to make money cutting grass raking leaves and cleaning golf balls at the club house.My big Brother had the best dog ever, we would get down in a creek on the 1st tee off then after the golfers hit there balls close to us and they would pick up there clubs then he`d say to the dog get the balls the dog would bring 2 of then back then all 3 of us would go in the storm pipe too the other side of the steet and look out of the storm drain.Brothers having good clean fun

A BROTHER LOVE NEEDS NOT BE SAID IT`S A GIVEN, 24 January 2009

hey jim, was up to see you yesterday. it was so hard i tried not to let go but i did and it has been a sad weekend for me i havent a clue as what to do. some how you will send me a sign and then and only then will i be able to go on. missimg you is the hardest thing for me because we were ment to be together for ever and ever. loving you was my whole life and will be for the rest of my life. i will be up to see you again today as i do every day .so for now remember i love and miss you so much

till later
Bess

25 January 2009

Well jim Friday is our 48TH AND SATURDAY YOUR BIRTHDAY, i wil be in Virginia Beach as we always did . you will be with me to walk the ocean and have the best of the best of time,s.i miss those time,s so much. holding you as we danced ahd having you say love you forever. jim i miss you so much and i will say love you on the beach .forever in my heart .i will love you forever. happy birthday till i get back. love you forever your wife Bess

12 February 2009

hey jim, wanted to say hi and let you know it snowed eight inches and i was home bound for a day but i did get up to see you tuesday. it is so cold out i dont go in the snow and cold as you know. not much going on ,everyone is fine and staying warm. Britt is starting school next month, i am so proud of her. she has done a big turn around in her life. Sam wants to be a nurse and i say go for it. Mike and Dakota and his family are doing good, you would be so proud of the kids. our kids are doing good working hard to stay afloat as we all are. dont think for one second it is not hard around her without you for i am so lonely and think of you all the time.i have no drive to do anything. o well i will be ok.well off to catch the news so i will close for no but will wrie soon.love and miss you so much till next time love you for ever

your friend and wife Bess, 4 March 2009

Well i am off to ocean city and will be gone for about 4 days. that is about all i can take. you will be with me as i go up and down the board,s. all the kid,s are fine and the baby,s, are a hoot. they will be starting kindergarden in the fall, o how they grow so fast. our kids are fine and takeing good care of me. i will be starting yard work soon , i like that. well my love i will write when i get back remember i love and miss you so much till next time your best friend and wife Bess

19 March 2009

HEY JIM, WAS IN O/C AS I TOLD YOU. IT WAS LIKE BEING IN ANOTHER COUNTRY. EVERYTHING HAD CHANGED ,ALL GONE AR THE CUTE HOME,S NOW ALL IS LEFT IS SOME MEMORIES. IT WAS SO COLD AND WINDY WE ONLY GOT TO DO THE BOARDS ONCE AND THAT WAS ENOUGH. I WILL BE UP TO SEE YOU TODAY AND TELL YOU ALL ABOUT IT. ALL IS GOOD AROUND HERE TODAY IS OUR SON,S BIRTHDAY, WE SURE DID RAISE SOME GOOD KIDS ALL OF THEM TAKE SUCH GOOD CAR OF ME I AM SO PROUD OF ALL OF THEM. THE GRAND KIDS ARE GOOD AS WELL AS THE BABY,S WELL MY LOVE I WILL SEE YOU IN A FEW MINUETS , LOVE YOU FOREVER

YUOR WIFE AND BEST FRIEND

BESS

27 March 2009

Hey Uncle Jim, Well it's one of the times in life I've been looking for....Yes, Chris my oldest son is Graduating from High school.I'm so proud of him and we're going to have a get together at my house and so glad Bess, Jim, Ricky and Deb and the whole clan from our side will be there. Just wish you could be there as well but I know you'll be looking down and be as proud as I'am to have been what I think as a great mentor and dad. Glad to see Billy wrote about some of the great times growing up at 10029 Dallas Ave. and that he did with me as you had with him about playing football with the big boys. Went to Ocean City last week-end for the big CAR Cruze, seen a '60 Impala just like the one you had. Also seen a car that had a brunch of 75-80 win stickers on it and it brought back the times you had taken me up there and the ones Uncle Bill had won.Man they had alot of cars there, they cut it off at 3,000. but more shows. Running out of space- Love you always in my heart,Jimmie K.

21 May 2009

MORNING, I AM TAKING CARE OF THE HEATHEN ,RICK IS FISHING IN N/C. EVERYTHING IS GOING SO SO .I WILL BE UP LATER ON TO VISIT WITH YOU. I HAVE BEEN SO DOWN AND NOW SOME HOW HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO GET BACK UP. PLEASE SEND ME A SIGN JIM.WELL I GUESS I WILL GO, NOTHING BIG GOING ON .WE ALL ARE GOING TO JIMMYK HOUSE SATURDAY ,WE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS VERRY MUCH. TILL LATER ON REMEMBER I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY BEING.Bess

24 May 2009

MORNING, I AM TAKING CARE OF THE HEATHEN ,RICK IS FISHING IN N/C. EVERYTHING IS GOING SO SO .I WILL BE UP LATER ON TO VISIT WITH YOU. I HAVE BEEN SO DOWN AND NOW SOME HOW HAVE TO FIND A WAY TO GET BACK UP. PLEASE SEND ME A SIGN JIM.WELL I GUESS I WILL GO, NOTHING BIG GOING ON .WE ALL ARE GOING TO JIMMYK HOUSE SATURDAY ,WE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO THIS VERRY MUCH. TILL LATER ON REMEMBER I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY BEING.Bess

24 May 2009

Hey jim, wanted to say that i am up with you every day and miss you so much. all is good around here the kids are fine and can you beleave the boys start svhool this year. they are so cute and jay is scarey , she is so smart she picks up real fast on every thing. i know you look down on them and smile. britt is doing good and turned in to a good young lady. sam is going to be a nurse they all are doing good . i am having a sad day seems i have a lot of them , when do i ever get over not having you? i guess you see the sadness when i am up with you. i guess i will be ok some day.well of to get dresses so i will be up in the morning till then remember i love and miss you. best friend forever love you so much bess

8 August 2009

Hey Uncle Jim, Thought I would take time this morning to jot down a few lines to let you know how it's going.....Well had to go to Las Vegas last week for work to take a course(alot of concentration there huh). Anyway thought of you and aunt Bess and the way you guys love to travel. Like to have all gone there together, but went by myself because we had just taken family vacation at Myrtle Beach. Home again and everything is fine. Miss you and think of you always. Love you, Jimmie K

25 August 2009

Uncle Jim, Well Las vegas was nice only I went with a couple of guys from work for a class, wish Kathy had gone with me we would have had more fun. Anyway went to Ocean City for the fall Cruise and played golf, didn't take my car this time. seen alot of cars that reminded me of you and Uncle Bill. they had the old sox and martin cuda there that ran the last race at 75-80 drags. it again reminded me of you. I think of you always, and forgive me for not writing that much. Kevin's playing football for the first time this year and you would think he has played for ever, he's damn good...real good. Chris is one of the coaches. He's a damn ole Giants Fan just like Rickey....I call him little Eli. but they're pretty good and the redskins are sucking, but of course I know you're looking down and seeing this mess. almost feel like boxing all my redskin stuff in a box and selling it, but damn I got alot of stuff... been rooting for 47 years, guess I'll sink with the ship. I love you, Jimmie K

21 October 2009

Uncle Jim, if you get a chance look down here tonight at White Plains Park at 6:15, Kevin's playing football and man I know you'd love to see him play the game. He's so good. But I know you'd throw down a little luck and knowledge to him. If you see Granddaddy up there get him to look with you and kiss grandma for me.... I LOVE YOU ALL, Jimmie K

21 October 2009

Hey jim, was up to see you today as i do every day. time is not good to me i miss you so much. i am tying to go on but some times i think you are here with me and i get a funny feeling. thanksgiving is around the corner and i am not looking forward to it at all. christmas is not the same just anoter day but i try for the kids . i remember how excited you got when evry one was over and the big dinner and lots of presents well now it is lonely with out you and just another day. i was up to see you today and i got a funny feeling again when will i be able to go on . i guess i will go watch the news so i will be up friday . pleasr remember how much i love and miss you . till then

love you forever and ever
Bess

29 October 2009

Hey jim it is christmas again and again it stinks. nothing is fun and i am notlooking forward to it at all. i never ever once though i would be alone. it is so hard. i am trying so hard to make it fun but i cant wait for it to be over. we still have beakfast together but that is about it. every one had something to do . again this year has hit me like a ton of brick,s have to find a way to start living. it is takeing a big tole on me i stay so down and i know it is not good but what am i do? enough of this depressing stuff. please send me sign that is ok for me to start living. being singel stinks. i am going to try to make christmas a good time for all. i will be up to see you sometime today so please remember i love and miss you so much till later on love you forever. yuor friend Bess

15 December 2009

Well dad it's been 5 years since you have passed. Times have changed and we have changed as well. At times it seems like you where here just yesterday. I just wanted to drop a note to say you are still thought about often and have not been forgotten. I still miss our talks and god knows there is enough going on these days that the conversations would be plentiful.
I thought I would also bring you up to date on your 3 great grand kids. They are all growing and getting smarter by the day. The boys have started school and doing well and Jalin (bow) well she isn’t far behind. You would be very proud of the job Mike and Dakota have down with them. I wanted you to know that you and granddad had a big hand in the upbringing manners Mike carries out with his kids. I just passed along to Mike and Dakota what was passed on to me.
Well I will close for now, but was thinking of you and just wanted to drop a quick note. Take care and know that you are not forgotten. Jimmy

Jimmy, 12 January 2010

HEY JIM, TODAY IS SO HARD FOR ME I AM SO LONELY IT HURT,S SO BAD. HAVING A HARD TIME TRYING TO WRITE YOU. I WILL BE UP AT THREE AND SPEND SOME TIME WITH YOU. WHO EVER SAID TIME WILL HEEL WAS SO WRONG. I JUST HATE BEING ALONE WITH NOTHING BUT A EMPTY HOUSE TO COME HOME TO. I NEVER WILL GET OVER NOT HAVING YOU WITH ME . I WILL TRY TO HOLD MY SELF TOGETHER BUT I AM NOT A STRONG PERSON ANY LONGER ,GOD SAW YOU WERE HURTING AND TOOK CARE OF YOU BUT HE FORGOT ME I AM STILL HERE AND ALONE. MAYBE HE HAS A REASON I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT. I KNOW YOU ARE FINE AND NOT HURTING AND I AM SO GLADE FOR THAT IT WAS SO HARD FOR ME TO SEE YOU LIKE THAT AND I COULDNT DO ANYTHING FOR YOU.WELL OFF TO GET COFFEE AND SEE YOU. PLEASE REMEMBER HOW MUCH I MISS YOU AND GOD ONLY KNOW,S HOW I LOVE YOU.
I WILL SEE YOU AROUND 3:OO OR SO .TILL THEN JIM I LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH

YOUR BEST FRIEND AND WIFE FOR EVER BESS, 24 January 2010

Uncle Jim, Doing OK in life and has gotten better with having this computer and facebook site so we all can keep in touch, Even Aunt Bess is on there thanks to Mark and Deb. We all chat and keep in touch and it's so nice to have all the family talking so much.Hell, I know if you could, you would be typing and giving us all your great advice. Even if your not here I still stop and think of what you would say or do in alot of situtions. Sure miss you and hope you have gotten with Granddaddy and Grandma to tell them I'll always in my heart love and miss them too. All of you were such a big part of my life when I was young and I love all of you for that. Mark,Deb and I are going to try and go to alot of car shows this year, can't wait...you know I love my Hot Rods. I guess I better get off here, But just wanted to drop in and chat abit and let you know I'll never forget you and that I love you. Hey if you run into Uncle Bullets tell him I'm doing ok and I think of and love him too.

Jimmie K, 3 March 2010

Hey Uncle Jim, It's the end of March and the weather has finally gotten back to where I like it but now at work it's time to restripe all the roads on base, so there goes my week-ends for a while. I might have to call in slick to get a few good golf days in. Everyone seems to be fine and I have been looking back on life in general and you always pop up right there in just about all the dessisions that I have made, or even the bad ones and then trying my damnest to straighten them out. It's been over 5 years since you've moved on to be with grandma and granddaddy, and everyone still misses you so much. But we all have your great advice you left us with. Anut Bess misses you so much Jim but I really think your kids are helping her cope with the biggest heartbreak of her life. You raised a great bunch and they all stick together. Just wish my side had been so close. But thats life, And I live mine to the fullest. I always have you to thank for being a big part of my life. love ya Jimmie K

23 March 2010

jim, it is me, was up to see you today as i do every day. this is really starting to get to me , i miss you so much and i hate being alone but what am i to do.i try so hard to to be strong ,sometimes all i can do is just sit and have a good cry . i know it sounds crazy but after 44 years i have no one to talk with . it is so lonely around the house ,i spend a lot of time cleaning and yards work but then that is of no help. please send me a sign that you want me go on .my life stink,s with out you. the kids have been wonderful to me but after it is over i still here alone. ilove you so much and miss you more every day. well enough of this i will write you when i am not so down i love you jim forever and ever. please god watch over him ,he is my life

your wife Bess, 30 March 2010

Hey uncle Jim, well I'm sitting here trying to write this on my new iPad that my Kathy has gotten me so I might have a few grammar mistakes. Getting close to the Ocean City Cruise. Can't wait. If you get some extra time please look in on Mikey, he sees to be going through some rough times in marriage, (just like we all do). I tried to give him alit advise and told him to think of you,so maybe just give him some kind of sign...I know he was your pride and joy so please lead him with your great wisdom. Well better get off here and go to bed 4:00 comes around early every day. miss you and kiss grandma for me....... I love all of you,forever in my heart.

Jimmie K, 5 May 2010

Uncle Jim, Just got back from OC Cruise. It was great, Mark and Deb came up but didn't get to go out with them and only seen them up at Hooter's. Man you should have seen this '60 Impala, man I know you would have fell in love with that one( just had a little 502 c.i. hidden down in it, some sleeper huh. right you would have burnt up the road, track and just wanting someone to want to try you in that. Yep, thought to myself...Uncle Jim would want that! Well Deb said they never went down to the Inlet, But next year or maybe the fall I won't play golf and just take them around to check out everything. I'll talk later....but don't forget to kiss grandma for me, love you all and think of you more and more everyday.

Jimmie K, 24 May 2010

Well it was Memorial day week-end and went down to Colonial Beach race track with my buddy Dave Hill he has a 70 Nova like mine but runs low 10's and modified class. well we were there all day but yep we won the whole damn thing. I was so proud of him. I was like his main crew dude, but really don't do much except fuel it and hook up the battery between races. But it was hot and Dave was running them down(he had to spot them lights as you know. But thats just a 1/8 mile track and to me it's so hard to run people down in a short distance. But the car was so strong allday and Dave was hitting the lights great. Thought of you alot that day and just knew that you'd love to be there with us. Anyway it was such a good time. And yes you should see the lettering job I have on his car. It's pretty good but now we have different sponsers so gotta change some stuff. OK ole buddy, I'll stop back in to chat with ya but don't forget to kiss grandma for me and tell her I love her.

Jimmie K, 2 June 2010

Dad, your site has ended but my memories and thoughts go with me. Forever in my heart. Will never stop missing you, you will always still be the man I looked up to all my life and take my life lessons learned by you with me. I will always be "DADDY'S LITTLE GIRL"! Love you always.

Debra Jean, 29 June 2010

Uncle Jim, really kindda liked going to this site just to type you a letter to read every once in awhile. But I think the Kids are ready to shut it down, however I'll still talk aloud to you hoping you can hear me because I know Bess, Jimmy,Rickey and Deb and all your grandkids are talking as well. But anyway their prayers to you should be heard way more then mine,only because I have taken in all your advice and kept it all these years. I do love you and have enjoyed typing a letter to you often so you could even read it to Grandma and granddaddy. well old buddy, kiss grandma for me and tell everyone I think of them. I keep talking to ya, so if you get time tell Uncle Bullets I think about him too. Love all you guys.

Jimmie K, 29 June 2010

Well jim, it has been a some time but here i am ,as you know i am up to see you every day and just talk. we are going to keep your site open for another year that is the only way i can have you close to me .all is well with your fmily and the twins are going in to first grade o how time has flown. jim ,time time not been kind to me , it is no easyer then befor but i am trying. i miss you so much and HATE being alone . our children take care of me so i am verry luck to have them. well of to the office ,untill next time please remember how much i love and miss you for ever in my heart and on my mind.will write again i will love you for the rest of my life xoxxox

your wife, 30 June 2010

Morning, as you know this has been the summer to remember , hot hot and hot. i have been working and staying on top of things, haveing work done on the house and thinking of selling but have no place to go. i hate it here so much . but what am i to do . i will be up to see you this evening when it is not so hot and do my walk. all the children are doing good, first grade this year can you beleave this ,where does time go.. our kid,s are doing fine and they miss you as much as i do only they handel it a lot better. well my love i will see you tonight. love you for ever

your wife and best friend, 26 July 2010

Hey Jim, Just went to the doctor's office yesterday for my 3 month check up, all looked pretty good but the med's are unbalancing my system and they see something with my liver. I'll go and get a test on that, but he said look pretty good and the ticker is doing great. It's been so damn Hot this summer and not much rain. Got to take my car up to the Thursday night car cruise. Ran good and alot of people like it alot, but haven't had time to clean it good because been working every week-end (at base striping roads). Deb said she's been walking every night and Mark's doing alot better with his back. Christ I think we're all going to have to admit we're getting old. Not me, always trying to have a good time and live my life to the fullest. And of course do the best for my family,they come first. Kev's playing football this year for the high school and has been practicing for the last 3 months. you'll have to look in on him he's awesome. Well better go,kiss grandma for me, Love you all. JK

27 July 2010

Hey there, it has been a while but here i am. have to tell you about what the kids did.they gave me high speed internet, phone and tv. i am Queen of the world . i have not got passed cnn yet ,you know how i love to watch the news. i love all of it. Deb,Mark,Jim,Diane,Rick,Dee all gave it to me they are some Awesome kid,s what a wonderful fmily we have. speaking of family ,have to tell you what Landen did he put on his shoes and told his mom i hate you and was runin away from home, he never got pass the door ,he told Taylor come on we are leaving and he is only 6 they are awesome kids HOW MANY TIMES DID WE HEAR THAT.well of to do some more things so will be up in the morning to see you.remember i love you and miss you so much ,till next time xoxoxo

31 August 2010

Uncle Jim, Just sitting here and thought I would drop a line or two for you to read. All is going well with me and the family. Kevin is still playing freshman football for the high school and doing great, by he did get leveled the other night. Man the guy trucked him good.Drove my car yesterday because we were off but I didn't get to go to Ocean City for the fall cruise. I was suppose to meet Bess, Deb and Mark up there but here at work they are being sitched to the Navy and had to stay here and get all that stuff straight and make sure the pay was rightand everything got transfered ok. but I guess we'll try again in the spring.Been so busy with all this work and my signs plus doing stuff for the high school it's a wonder I'm not about 100 lbs. (I wish) but no same old fat dude here. Doctors appt. for the next 2 weeks, oh yeah that's alot of fun. well the painters are calling they have a problem. so better go for now, look down here on us and kiss grandma for me, love you all.

Jimmie K, 12 October 2010

Hey Uncle Jim, Just thought I would write you today and let you know that things are going ok on my end of the family so far. but of course you know its far because don't really talk to people much, but do keep in touch with Anut Bess and Debbie. Yeah they're my facebook buddies. Bess gets upset with some of the younger generation on there at times but I try my hardest to calm her down and tell her don't worry about other people so much, but you know her. She just wants the best for people in life but I told her just live and let them take the bumps for awhile and then they will appriciate the help and guidance. anyway we're all good, Kevin has his last freshman game tonight....raining but told him that is the best way to play wet, sliding and hard hitting. Look down on him tonight if you get a chance....he's so good and he loves that game so much. well better get back to work. give grandma a kiss for me and tell everyone I love 'em. Uncle Jim miss you man, but will always remember, JK

4 November 2010

Hey Uncle Jim, Just thought I would write you today and let you know that things are going ok on my end of the family so far. but of course you know its far because don't really talk to people much, but do keep in touch with Anut Bess and Debbie. Yeah they're my facebook buddies. Bess gets upset with some of the younger generation on there at times but I try my hardest to calm her down and tell her don't worry about other people so much, but you know her. She just wants the best for people in life but I told her just live and let them take the bumps for awhile and then they will appriciate the help and guidance. anyway we're all good, Kevin has his last freshman game tonight....raining but told him that is the best way to play wet, sliding and hard hitting. Look down on him tonight if you get a chance....he's so good and he loves that game so much. well better get back to work. give grandma a kiss for me and tell everyone I love 'em. Uncle Jim miss you man, but will always remember, JK

Jimmie K, 4 November 2010

Hey Uncle Jim, Just thought I would write you today and let you know that things are going ok on my end of the family so far. but of course you know its far because don't really talk to people much, but do keep in touch with Anut Bess and Debbie. Yeah they're my facebook buddies. Bess gets upset with some of the younger generation on there at times but I try my hardest to calm her down and tell her don't worry about other people so much, but you know her. She just wants the best for people in life but I told her just live and let them take the bumps for awhile and then they will appriciate the help and guidance. anyway we're all good, Kevin has his last freshman game tonight....raining but told him that is the best way to play wet, sliding and hard hitting. Look down on him tonight if you get a chance....he's so good and he loves that game so much. well better get back to work. give grandma a kiss for me and tell everyone I love 'em. Uncle Jim miss you man, but will always remember, JK

Jimmie K, 4 November 2010

Dad - here I am and thinking about you as I do every day - my hole is still wide open and missing you each and every day but memories keep you alive with me and always will. Today marks another Vet day and just want you to know - it is so appreciated by me and your family for being one of the men who wore the uniform and stood up for our freedom. Love you always Dad - I'm still your little girl - please keep looking over me and all of us. Till later. Your girl - Deb

11 November 2010

Jim, thinking of you today and wanted to say thank you for our freedom. i know how you loved your COUNTRY. I AM AT THE OFFICE SO DON'T HAVE A LOT OF TIME ,BUT IWILL BE UP TO SEE YOUSOON. THIS IS STARTING TO TAKE A TOLL ON ME NOT HAVING YOU AROUND. I HAVE TO RUN SO REMEMBER I LOVE YOU AND GOD KNOWS I MISS YOU SO MUCH LOVE.

Bess, 11 November 2010

Well it is that time ofyear again,having a hard time again ,when will this empty feeling go away. i am so down this year more so then last but i guess it is something i have to deal with. our kids are doing good and are so good to me for with out them i am so so lost. diane did well and is on the road to recovery. i will be up to day as i do every day to spend time with you. jim life with out you is nothing i am trying so hard to get ready for christmas but not doing so good .remember i love and miss you so much till later love you forever

your wife Bess, 20 November 2010

Morning, it is Christmas eve and will be going to Deb and Mark,s , looking forward to this . all the children will be home for Christmas morning. i will be up to see you today as i do every day. this is such a lonely time for me , i can not tell you enough how much i miss you but some how i am trying to go on. jim please show me the way . well my friend i will be up soon so remember i love you and miss you so so much please look down and join us for Christmas. i love you your wife

24 December 2010

Hey Uncle Jim, it's a new year with same old BS. yep as they might have told you about our Prez. well only took a little time but as wheels turn so does the same old BS. yep he is already praising this asshole Mike Vick a Convicted felon on how good it is he is back on track, after getting his job back in the pros making millions. not really mad at how hes plays (doing well) but the fact that if that was me. Jimmy, Mark or anybody else. I could never get my job back especially working for the Gov. and the President is the top dog. but like always time will show. other then being so pissed about that I'm fine. another Christmas has come and gone think everyone is fine. trying to get over to see Bess and Deb but running my butt off with Kevin. he does everything in sports. I'm always picking him up or taking him, but he's not getting into trouble. well better run Kiss Grandma for me and remember I love you all and think of you always. Love, Jimmie K

18 January 2011

Hi Dad - 1/24/2005 - 1/24/2011 - Six years ago today we let you go for you to have peace and comfort. Today as any day, I remember the good times, the happy times, the healthy times, that is what I keep with me and that is how I keep moving forward. Remember always you were and always will be at the center of my world. Love and miss you so much. Your daughter.

Debra Jean, 24 January 2011

Uncle Jim, Well it's almost March and St. Paterick's Day. yeah it's hard to try and tell people That I'm part Irish with a name like Kreilick but I do have that McCauley part in me from my grandmother and grandfather that I'm so proud of, so when the 17th gets here I am proud to get my Irish up (hehehe). Well think everyone is fine got to chat with Bess for awhile and we wanted to go see how Billy is doing but I had to help at the house with painting. maybe we can go soon. Hope we're all doing good through your eyes, I know your keeping an eye on us. and at least I try to walk that road in the right direction. I got to get to a meeting, so Kiss grandma for me and tell everyone I'm thinking of them. And thanks again for your leadership and advice in life, love ya.....Jimmie K

23 February 2011

Uncle Jim, It's almost time for the Ocean City Car Cruze and got my car ready, just need a real good cleaning and waxing and off to the beach for 5 days of golf, cars, food and fun. Deb said her and Mark will be up there but they will only stay a night, but we'll try and get together. Wish you could be here to go, I would really like for You,Uncle Bill and myself to all be there together and just look and check out the cars. Last year there was a car with an old 75-80 dragstrip win sticker on it and made me stop and think of the times you took me to that track when I was a kid. guess thats where I found out how much I love hot rods. You and Billy got me hooked on cars and still love 'em to this day. well anyway look down on me May 18-22 and check out the rods. Gotta go, But Kiss Grandma for me and tell granddad and Bullets I'm well and that I love all you guys. in my heart forever....Jimmie K

22 April 2011