my husband ,my best friend. you have been gone for two years and the hurt is so real i miss you as much today as when you walked out of my life jim i love you so much it is a everyday strugle to go on with out you.if not for our children i would be crazy. life will never be the same with out you for you were and will forever be my husband,my best friend and some day we will hold each other again .all my love your wife bess
bess, 17 February 2007
Dad, there is a empty hole left in my heart from when God took you home to be with him, that hole will remain empty for the rest of my life until I am with you again. I hold all memories of you, I live each day remembering you and talking about you because you are still and always will be a very huge part of my life. Your spirit lives on in me yesterday, today and tomorrow - I love you dad, your daughter.
Debra Jean, 18 February 2007
Jim getting to know you over the years as a Father inlaw really let me know the kind of man you were and what your family ment to you. You truly were a good man and a real person and I am proud to have been able to join your family and mostly know you as a friend. Your never gone from here because your family will always remember you and have you with them. Until we meet againg oneday you will truly be missed but never forgoten.
Mark, 20 February 2007
Dad, you have never been forgotten. Time has moved on and we have found a way to move on also. It's the memory's you left us as well as the values you taught us that allow us to move forward. The strength you showed during your final battle I will always remember. I was asked on a questionnaire who do you consider a hero, I responded my father for all he did for us and who he was. I do look forward to one day down the road sitting and talking with you again. I truly miss our talks.
Your Son Jimmy, 20 February 2007
Jim,WE ARE GOING IN TO SPRING ONE OF YOUR BEST TIMES OF THE YEAR, I KNOW HOW YOU LOVED WORKING IN THE YARD AND HAVING COFFEE ON THE FRONT PORCH LISTENING TO THE BIRDS. I HAVE A HARD TIME DOING THAT BECAUSE YOUR CHAIR IS EMPTY AND I HAVE ON ONE TO TALK WITH I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND IF I COULD I WOULD CHANGE PLACES WITH YOU , I WILL FOREVER HOLD ON TO THE MEMORIES WE SHARED AND MY FRIEND YOU WILL LIVE ON FOREVER IN MY HART I MISS YOU SO MUCH .ALL MY LOVE BESS
22 February 2007
well got up today and had a hard time ,i was thinking of you and i was so down then i starting remembering all the good times we had and one of the most was when we were walking on the beach in Brazil when you held my hand and said we will all ways be together and live life . well that gave me a warm feeling for we are one and will forever be .miss you so much.
loving wife, 24 February 2007
Dad, you were on my mind throughout the night and I just wanted to leave you a note to tell you I miss you more than I could ever say - I see your old jeep all the time and just laugh and laugh and yes, it's still running! I gave you this tuplip because you liked them so much - not sure why (laughing). I will write again soon, Dad - I love you. Your daughter
Deb, 8 March 2007
Pops, so much has changed for me over the past few years. I graduated high school back in June of 2006. On graduation day, I couldn't help but think about how proud you would've been to see me up there getting my diploma. I honestly couldn't have made it through without you and I thank you so much for all your caring and support and that extra push you gave me to succeed. I'll never forgot the times that we spent together and the strong bond that we have. I love you and miss you so much.
Brittney (Baby Girl), 8 March 2007
my friend. time has come for me to do your thing working in the yard ,and yes i know you will be working beside me as always. jim it is so lonely around here with out you i miss you as much today as yesterday i come to see you every day and yes you here me jim i love you now and forever rest my friend your wife for ever.
yuor wife bess, 12 March 2007
Jim,
Time goes by and we all go on living. My mom has past and maybe you have run into each other. Deb, Britt and I think of you all the time. Make sure you save us all a spot up there. I did not know you as long as some but you will be missed but never forgotten.
Mark, 12 March 2007
Well jim it is getting a little closer to the time we spent working in the yard together, some days i think why but i know how much you loved the yard work and the feeling you got when it was done . i will be seeing you in every flower that bloooms and talking with you on how the yard looks. jim it is no easyer now then befor but some how i will go on and please remember how much i love you my friend you rest and be happy love you forever Bess
16 March 2007
my friend, wanted to say how much i miss you , it has been a hard week for me .sometimes i just sit and think we can go here or we can go there then i stop and think you are in the most beautiful place of all . wanted to say i love you and miss you so much every day .and yes the blue truck is still where you left it. love forever Bess
31 March 2007
Dad, Spring time has arrived and also Easter. I look back to the years when you enjoyed watching your grandkids in the front yard finding easter eggs and what a joy it was for you. This year we watch your great-grandkids find the eggs. Although no holdiday is ever the same with you gone, we find the stregnth as a family to continue traditions going and we can feel you with us also. Happy Easter, I miss you so very much. I love you Dad. :)
Deb, 3 April 2007
jim today was a hard day again. just thinking about you not being here to see the kids hunt for there easter eggs. it was a special day for you as all holidays were . we will all be together as be for and you will be here with us on this day . i miss you so much and love you for life. happy easter my friend bess
6 April 2007
Well today we did Easter at jim and diane house it was nice and the kids did the egg hunt and we had fun i was standing on the back deck and i truley felt you beside me watching Landen and Taylor hut for the eggs yes you are with me in everything i do ,i miss you so much .Happy Easter
love forever Bess
8 April 2007
Hi Jim just had you on my mind and wanted to stop by and say hi. Time has passed and a lot has happened, Britt has a job!!! she doing good. As you know my Mom is up there too and I hope you both can save a spot for all of us down here. We think of you all the time and remember the good man you were and are. family does not always have to be with you to feel them.
21 May 2007
well jim it is that time of year and i am working in our yard ,i know you see it and yes i talk with you when i am working . i here you sometimes and i dont have to tell you how much you are missed .remember i love you and so very much miss you so lonely around here with out you. it is so hard trying to go on .love you with all my being your wife for ever Bess
Bess, 3 June 2007
Today is Fathers Day and wanted you to know you are with me today and I am thinking of you. This is a hard day for me and sometimes hard to hold back the tears when I think back at past times but knowing you are not sick anymore helps me dry the tears. I miss you more and more as time goes by but always remember you are with me each and every day. Happy Fathers Day - I miss you and love you. Your daughter
Deb, 17 June 2007
Dad, wanted to let you know you are on my mind, your granddaughter took ownership of her car today, all the responsiblity lays with her now. Please keep a look out for her and protect her as you watch her. It's almost her 19th birthday and we will feel you with us and I know she misses you as much as I miss you. Till later, love you. Luv Bug said hi!
Deb, 10 July 2007
jim, i have had a sad day again , i have a lot of them. but i wanted to tell you how much i miss you and o yes forever how i love you. time does not heal for i will always miss you and when i come up to see you i know you hear me talking to you. why you were taken from me i will never understand but i will some day.love you with all my being. love you forever my best friend
30 July 2007
well jim it is me i am haveing a hard time for some reason .guess it is normal. wanted to let you know i am going on a cruise the end of the month. i dont know how i will do this with out you but i am going to try ,we did this together and so please look over me and yes you will be with me on the ship we will talk about the place i am going ,i love and miss you so much b.f.f bess
6 September 2007
Jim another year is almost gone, time seem to fly by latly, Thanksgiving and the holidays are coming but its hsrd to get in the mood. We wll miss you for the person you were but we think of you always. Just wanted to say hi!!!
18 October 2007
Pops it's me love bug, just wanted you to know I have never forgotten about you, you tamed me a little, I am still very very spoiled and I still get something everytime mommy and daddy go into town. They just gave me a birthday celebration and had spegetti, remember that was your favorite meal too and then I had ice cream. Miss you! Love Bug (Bear)
Bear Claw Davis, 8 November 2007
Hi, sorry I have not written in awhile, have been going through some rough personal issues with my life but not for one day has gone by that you are not in my thoughts. Thanksgiving is approaching and you will have your plate of turkey and egg nog. I will be by to visit and cry with you on Thanksgiving, no matter what people say, no matter how much time goes by the holidays are rough without you. I miss you very much!
Love Deb, 8 November 2007
Dad, my love for you will go on forever, that empty spot in my heart will heal with time but my memories of you and me as father and daughter will go on for my lifetime and I will cherrish them each and every day. You were my hero and always there for me and you will be in my thoughts each and every day. Miss you more than I can tell you. Our promise to you about mom continues all the time - we are always there for her when she needs us. Bye dad - I love you!
24 November 2007
Good morning my friend, it is that time of year for christmas but jim it is so sad here with out you . i am so lonely it hurts every time i go see you. for with out you i am nothing .we were to be together for life. if it wasent for our children i have no idea what i would do. please remember how much i love and miss you. some days are so bad all i do is sit up there beside you and cry iwill love you for the rest of my life untill next time your wife forever
Bess, 1 December 2007
hey jim it is me ,having a hard time this year for some rason.it is so lonely around here with out you .this year is a sad one,all i do is cry when i see other people together .i miss you so much hope i can get christmas overe with for our kids and gand kids and the babys. i love you so much .merry christmas my friend .always remember i love you
your wife bess, 18 December 2007
Dad, christmas has come and gone and this year, being the tough girl that I am, all I could do is think about how different our family christmas is with you not with us. Your presence is there but your chair remains empty and so does my heart. I brought you some turkey/dressing after dinner and I broke down because my empty hole is even depper regardless what people say - you are always in my thoughts each and every day and I miss you more than words can say. I love you dad!
Deb, 27 December 2007
Today marks the 3rd year since you passed and for some reason we keep going on because we know that is what you wanted for us and remember, not one day goes by that you are not thought about, remembered or talked about. I think back and thank god each day that you don't have to live with cancer anymore and somehow I understanding that more and more. I miss you beyond words. Keep looking down on me and watching over me and my family. I love you dad!
Deb, 24 January 2008
jim it is the third year with out you, it has been so empty around here, all i can do is sit with you and tell you how much i miss you and i rally do beleave you here me who ever said time heals was so wrong it still hurts . i will never except your are gone from me. please remember i will love you for the rest of my life i miss you so so much your best friend your wife
24 January 2008
Dad, with this message this site comes to a close, my thoughts were put out on this website for you to know how I am feeling. Time is begining to heal a little of the pain and loss I feel but you will never ever be forgotten in my heart and thoughts. I was blessed to have had you as my father, my hero, and to have known your love in your way. We will meet again. Dad - I love you! This is not good bye its until I see you again - Missing you terribly.
Your Daughter - Debbie (DJ), 7 May 2008
well my friend it has been three year,s and it still hurts . i come to see you every day and yes i know you here me, i talk with you as if you were here beside me and i sometimes feel you beside me and i reach out to hold you .life will never be the same ,but i try to go on .it is so empty . i will love you and miss you for the rest of my life . you were and will be my best friend forever. thank you for the best life a wife could have. i love you so much your
Bess, 8 May 2008
Pops, you've always taught me to do what's right and to make the best decisions in life. I think about you with each passing day and I realize what an amazing inspiration and wonderful mentor you were. I'm striving to become a better person and correct some of the mistakes I've made, because I want to make you proud. I miss you more than you know and I love you.
Baby Girl, 8 May 2008
well today is another day with out having you around.but i wanted to let you know that i will forever love and miss you my friend.i know you here me and i wanted to let you know that you will be beside me in everything i do. when i get ready to leave from visiting you i look up and say LOVE YOU JIM and you here me. forever we will be as one and no body can take that from us till next time ,love you forever your wife
9 May 2008
Dad,
I noticed that I have forgot to tell you about Jalin, Mikes daughter.She is a very Beautiful and bright little girl. Mike and Dakota have done a great job with them. They even decided to name their daughter in your honor Jalin Imanti McCauley (JIM).They were just married a couple of weeks ago and they had you there in sprit.We all also know that you are in a better place and are looking down on us.If you were looking in on us Saturday, it was Mom's idea to take down the pool.(haha).
12 May 2008
jim...jimmy's retarded. yes jailin is named in your honor, but her name is Jailin Imani McCauley. Her initials make the your name-JIM. and i'm sure you're reading this trying to figure out how to pronounce her name. it's ok...just wing it. so i'm a McCauley now. how about that?!?! i know you were there with us and i just hope you think i'm a good addition to the family. i'll make Mike get on soon to talk to you. talk to you soon!
Dakota McCauley, 21 May 2008
HI JIM. YES THE POOL IS GONE AND IT WAS MY IDEA.MIKE AND DAOKTA HAD A BEAUTIFUL WEDDING AND YOU WERE THERE WITH ME AND I KNOW HOW PROUD YOU ARE OF THEM. KIND OF A SAD DAY BUT I WILL GET OVER IT AND START OVER THE CHILDREN ARE BEAUTIFUL. MIKE AND DAKOTA HAVE DONE A WONDERFUL JOB WITH THEM .OUR KIDS HAVE BEEN SO WONDERFUL TO ME (WE DID SOMETHING GOOD)I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH UNTILL NEXT TIME
BESS, 21 May 2008
hey pop. hows it goin. the boys will be four in a few weeks. jimmys being a wuss. you should talk to him in his dreams or something. tell him its ok for the boys to get a push scooter. they're boys...they're supposed to fall down and go boom. im pretty sure we're gonna go ahead and pick up the scooters so i'll let you know who was right. me or jimmy. take care
dakota mccauley, 29 May 2008
one more thing. mike went deep sea fishing with ricky, adam and susan last weekend. he really enjoyed himself. adam and susan told him lots of stories about the times you and bess spent with them. like the time you practically had to carry susan to her room. or all the dancing you and susan did together. he liked hearing them.
your granddaughter in-law, 29 May 2008
ANOTHER DAY GONE AND STILL WORKING IN THE YARD, IT LOOKS GOOD SO FAR. AS YOU KNOW I WAS UP THERE WITH YOU AS I DO EVERY DAY AND IT WAS A BEAUTIFUL MORNING WITH YOU . WANTED TO SAY SEE YOU IN THE MORNING AND REMEMBER I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY BEING. TILL THEN
BESS
31 May 2008
FORGOT TO TELL YOU , DAKOTA IS A TRUE MC CAULEY NOW . HOPE JIM DOSENT DRIVE HER CRAZY .(HAHA) I AM VERRY PROUD THAT SHE IS MICHAEL WAYNE,S WIFE A I KNOW YOU ARE AS PROUD .SEE YOU AROUND 5:30 OR SO. LOVE YOU.
31 May 2008
WELL TODAY IS FATHER.S DAY AND YES THE KIDS WIIL BE UP TO SEE YOU.I WILL BE WITH YOU AS WELL. THEY DAYS ARE SO LONG AND THE NIGHTS ARE EVEN LONGER BUT I AM TRYING SO HARD TO GO ON .I AM THINKING OF YOU EVERY DAY AND HOW PEOPLE DO THIS I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND. JIM I WILL LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE SAD DAY AGAIN BUT WILL GO ON LOVE YOU BESS
15 June 2008
Another Fathers day came and left and as always I was there and left you flowers even though flowers was not a big thing for you. You are always on my mind, places I go I still see you and most of all I feel your presense with me at all times and can feel you looking over me and my family. Your kids are taking care of mom, she is very lonely without you but we are always here for her. Till later, missing you. I love you dad!
Deb, 18 June 2008
Jim, stoped to say i will be up to see you tonight.i had to work for Adam today in the law office, what a treat. yes our kids have been so good to me but i miss you so much the evening,s are so long i go to bed early .all i do is cry i hate my life now it is so empty i guess you see me up there and know what is wrong i love and miss you my friend till later love for ever
your wife, 14 July 2008
Hey dad, just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. Today is July 16, 2008 and your baby girl turned 20! She is really trying to turn her life around and maintain a job. Im so glad that you were able to put your anger away after I told you 21 years ago I was pregnant, what a terrific outcome! You are with us in our hearts and thoughts. Love you dad!
Deb, 16 July 2008
well i went to v/a beach with sam, we had a blast .the whole time i was there i was talking to you. remembering how we had so much fun there the sun rise and sun set was awesome and you were with me to see it.i miss you so much and rmember i will love you for the rest of my life
until next time love for ever
bess
20 August 2008
MORNING, I WENT UP TO MASSANUTTAN AND IT WAS AWESOME, YOU WERE WITH ME THE THREE DAYS I WAS THERE. IT WAS SO GOOD TO GET AWAY I HAD A REAL GOD TIME. I AM NOE LEARNING TO DO THINGS ON MY OWN .I AM GOING TO THE OFFICE TODAY BUT WILL BE UP TO SEE YOU WHEN I GET OFF. UNTILL THEN REMEMER I LOVE UOI
BESS
3 September 2008
hey jim, i am trying to get ready for christmas but not doing so good. i have lost all spirit. the kids are wonderful to me.you had a talk with them i know that . i have been staying busy working in the law office and it helps but the knight is so long i go to bed so i can try to understand why i feel so lonely. i will be up to see you today and we will talk. miss you so much .love you.
2 November 2008